Long time i didn’t see my sent item in my email, i found this link, good link that has forwarded to me, but I never really care what is this about untill today. Let me co-past the content. Again, about marriage ^ ^
11th May 2007
Sheikh Ubayd al-Jaabiree spoke against those Muslim men and women who use the internet to find a partner. He said there are amongst some men whose hearts there is a disease and who are cursed by Allaah such that they enter amongst forums specific for women with female names and start chatting with sisters and even if it is for da’wah for they deceive the people around them and then ask them for marriage etc.
The Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said “Whoever comes to you and you are pleased with their deen and mannerism…” Saheehah (1022)
Here the sheikh said a Muslim man who wants to get married should go to the wali (her guardian) and not through the internet so they can see the mannerism and deen of the one proposing. How can the deen and mannerism be ascertained from the internet? The hadeeth says “comes to you”. Sisters and brothers he said be warned since these brothers and also some sisters have no shame in what they do and sometimes they break marriages as they maybe speak to someone who is already married and chat with them until the divorce has occurred. And he said he has received numerous complaints about this.